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How can i fix this Relationship Madness?

I was looking for some advice on some relationship problems that i am having. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half now. I am not allowed to do a lot of things (as he says). Like go out for a night or even go to the store by myself. There are so many things that are going on right now that i really don’t know what i can do.?! Any help will be extremely greatful.
Everything is getting totally worse. I’m actually worried. I don’t have any family around here and i really don’t have anyone to talk to about this stuff. He is totally loosing control of his actions. i thought maybe i could help him through it but i guess i proved myself wrong. I cannot go anywhere with out him, let alone I cant even talk with someone on the phone without him wondering who it is and what i am talking about. I hate having no one to talk to about this stuff! that’s why i am really hoping to get some advice!?!

he sounds like a control freak.

the only way to reclaim your right of choice is to sever all ties with him

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Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man: Learn to Love What’s Right Instead of Trying to Fix What’s Wrong $1.97 Used – In “Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man”, psychotherapist Sally Watkins presents a hopeful, positive approach to couple-hood, showing readers how to focus on what’s right and what’s working rather than what’s going wrong. Watkins uses many ideas from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which asserts that the very attempt to get rid of pain and suffering often makes a situation worse. Unlike most relationship books on the market, this is not a fix-it manual. Sally doesn’t focus on problems an

Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man: Learn to Love What’s Right Instead of Trying to Fix What’s Wrong $4.95 New – In “Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man”, psychotherapist Sally Watkins presents a hopeful, positive approach to couple-hood, showing readers how to focus on what’s right and what’s working rather than what’s going wrong. Watkins uses many ideas from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which asserts that the very attempt to get rid of pain and suffering often makes a situation worse. Unlike most relationship books on the market, this is not a fix-it manual. Sally doesn’t focus on problems and

Deal Breakers: When to Work On a Relationship and When to Walk Away $11.99 This is a book about men. Not all men, just emotionally unhealthy men. The ones who make you question, “Is it him or is it me? Am I making too big a deal out of this? I try to tell him how I feel, but he says I’m overreacting or needy or it’s all my fault.”Relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be? When do you know you are struggling too hard to make a relationship succeed?Deal Breakers is about getting out of this “relationship purgatory” — where the present is unfulfilling and the future is the only thing you can hope for. But there is no magic future. If he won’t work on problems today, it’s unlikely they’ll ever be resolved. And passively hoping for change will only cost you years of depression or expensive therapy.Dr. Bethany Marshall is here to remind women that relationships — like business relationships — are deals. In the business world, a deal breaker is the one nonnegotiable term that, if not agreed to, means the deal is off. But in the world of relationships, identifying your deal breaker can be much more promising, as it holds out the possibility of helping you to understand where the relationship has gone wrong, what needs to be done in order to make it better, and when to walk away because you’re doing more work than him to fix it.A deal breaker is a boundary that smart people set for themselves because they know that falling in love can make them do stupid things. Through case studies, deal breaker scenarios, and suggested courses of action, Deal Breakers expertly guides frustrated women. By defining your deal breaker, you hold all the power to create the happiness you deserve.

Essential Manners for Couples: From Snoring and Sex to Finances and Fighting Fair – What Works, What Doesn’t, and Why $21.95 From the man who closed the lid forever on the “toilet seat debate” in the New York Times bestseller Essential Manners for Men comes the follow-up book that paves the way for couples everywhere to fix relationship problems before they start.Peter Post offers the secrets to a long and happy marriage or partnership—without psychoanalysis or prescription medication. The good news: often just a few simple words or actions can mend a rift. Essential Manners for Couples reveals how easy it can be to keep the spark in your relationship.With self-deprecating humor, clarity, and wit, Peter recounts couples’ most mischievous manners foibles (his own included). Essential Manners for Couples is based on Emily Post Institute surveys, Peter’s years of fielding thousands of etiquette questions, popular demand from couples attending his national lectures and workshops, and his experience as a husband and father.Peter looks at couples’ private lives and public lives, revealing the common “flashpoints”—the places, situations, and times when inconsiderate behavior is most likely to invade your blissful coupledom. He offers “etiquette imperatives”—simple truths and concise nuggets of advice not to be ignored, including: Permissive flirting: How to define parameters and enjoy verbal combat with the opposite sex. The “Chore I.Q.” test—are you really divvying up the workload fairly? When you hate her friends: socializing with the enemy. Enter children: Good parents still spend time together as a couple. Bedroom etiquette—getting beyond the headache excuse. Interactions with in-laws—smooth merge or crash and burn? Where to go for the holidays: surviving family visits and how to say “no.” Balancing life with your other significant other—your work … and much more. Essential Manners for

Essential Manners for Couples: From Snoring and Sex to Finances and Fighting Fair – What Works, What Doesn’t, and Why $12.99 From the man who closed the lid forever on the “toilet seat debate” in the New York Times bestseller Essential Manners for Men comes the follow-up book that paves the way for couples everywhere to fix relationship problems before they start.Peter Post offers the secrets to a long and happy marriage or partnership—without psychoanalysis or prescription medication. The good news: often just a few simple words or actions can mend a rift. Essential Manners for Couples reveals how easy it can be to keep the spark in your relationship.With self-deprecating humor, clarity, and wit, Peter recounts couples’ most mischievous manners foibles (his own included). Essential Manners for Couples is based on Emily Post Institute surveys, Peter’s years of fielding thousands of etiquette questions, popular demand from couples attending his national lectures and workshops, and his experience as a husband and father.Peter looks at couples’ private lives and public lives, revealing the common “flashpoints”—the places, situations, and times when inconsiderate behavior is most likely to invade your blissful coupledom. He offers “etiquette imperatives”—simple truths and concise nuggets of advice not to be ignored, including: Permissive flirting: How to define parameters and enjoy verbal combat with the opposite sex. The “Chore I.Q.” test—are you really divvying up the workload fairly? When you hate her friends: socializing with the enemy. Enter children: Good parents still spend time together as a couple. Bedroom etiquette—getting beyond the headache excuse. Interactions with in-laws—smooth merge or crash and burn? Where to go for the holidays: surviving family visits and how to say “no.” Balancing life with your other significant other—your work … and much more. Essential Manners for

Hot (Broke) Messes: How to Have Your Latte and Drink It Too $13.99 31-year-old Nancy Trejos was supposed to be an expert on handling her money – after all, she’s the personal finance columnist for one of the nation’s leading newspapers, The Washington Post. But a few months ago, she found herself in her own dire financial straits. Faced with a mountain of bills, debt, and no way to pay her rent, she was forced to call her parents to ask them for a loan. That night was a wake-up call – she vowed to get herself out of debt and into financial solvency. In Hot Broke Messes, Trejos takes readers along with her on her journey. She meets with a financial planner and a therapist to deal with all the issues young people face today – from credit card debt and student loans, to impulse buying and emotional spending, to the cost of having a social life, to buying a house with someone during a potentially impermanent relationship and more. Trejos learns what causes these problems in herself, how she can fix them, and how she can pass that advice on to other young people going through the same experiences. Even better, she shows readers how they can address these problems without completely giving up their lives – no “give up your latte a day” type advice here! Trejos’ personal and unique voice, along with her experiences that everyone can relate to, will lead readers to relatively painless financial security.

Hot (Broke) Messes: How to Have Your Latte and Drink It Too $9.99 31-year-old Nancy Trejos was supposed to be an expert on handling her money – after all, she’s the personal finance columnist for one of the nation’s leading newspapers, The Washington Post. But a few months ago, she found herself in her own dire financial straits. Faced with a mountain of bills, debt, and no way to pay her rent, she was forced to call her parents to ask them for a loan. That night was a wake-up call – she vowed to get herself out of debt and into financial solvency. In Hot Broke Messes, Trejos takes readers along with her on her journey. She meets with a financial planner and a therapist to deal with all the issues young people face today – from credit card debt and student loans, to impulse buying and emotional spending, to the cost of having a social life, to buying a house with someone during a potentially impermanent relationship and more. Trejos learns what causes these problems in herself, how she can fix them, and how she can pass that advice on to other young people going through the same experiences. Even better, she shows readers how they can address these problems without completely giving up their lives – no “give up your latte a day” type advice here! Trejos’ personal and unique voice, along with her experiences that everyone can relate to, will lead readers to relatively painless financial security.

Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got $15.95 In Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got, bestselling author Dr. Phil tells people who are dissatisfied with their love lives to stop making excuses and start taking action. You deserve a committed relationship, and it is within your control to have the one you want. First, though, you need to determine what you want in a partner, plot your course, and get out there and create velocity in your pursuit of a loving connection.In this book you’ll learn to: Present the real you in the most flattering light. You have to stop being your own best kept secret. Peek behind the male curtain. Dr. Phil tells you things about men that they don’t necessarily want you to know. How good is your Guy-Q? Master the right moves. Don’t fade into the wallpaper; get noticed and get involved. If you are already coupled up then learn how to grow and nurture what you have built. Bag ‘em, tag ‘em and take ‘em home. Learn how to negotiate the relationship you desire and then close the deal. Get out of your relationship rut. The daily grind, money problems, work, etc., can take their toll on your relationship. Dr. Phil shows you how to assess the state of your union and take your relationship to a deeper level. There are no exceptions: There is somebody for everybody, and everybody deserves a relationship filled with love and excitement. Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got offers you the plan to find not just any relationship but the committed, loving, joy-filled relationship you’ve been waiting for. Contact Dr. Phil at www.drphil.com

Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got $0.99 In Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got, bestselling author Dr. Phil tells people who are dissatisfied with their love lives to stop making excuses and start taking action. You deserve a committed relationship, and it is within your control to have the one you want. First, though, you need to determine what you want in a partner, plot your course, and get out there and create velocity in your pursuit of a loving connection.In this book you’ll learn to: Present the real you in the most flattering light. You have to stop being your own best kept secret. Peek behind the male curtain. Dr. Phil tells you things about men that they don’t necessarily want you to know. How good is your Guy-Q? Master the right moves. Don’t fade into the wallpaper; get noticed and get involved. If you are already coupled up then learn how to grow and nurture what you have built. Bag ‘em, tag ‘em and take ‘em home. Learn how to negotiate the relationship you desire and then close the deal. Get out of your relationship rut. The daily grind, money problems, work, etc., can take their toll on your relationship. Dr. Phil shows you how to assess the state of your union and take your relationship to a deeper level. There are no exceptions: There is somebody for everybody, and everybody deserves a relationship filled with love and excitement. Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got offers you the plan to find not just any relationship but the committed, loving, joy-filled relationship you’ve been waiting for. Contact Dr. Phil at www.drphil.com

Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got $15 In Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got, bestselling author Dr. Phil tells people who are dissatisfied with their love lives to stop making excuses and start taking action. You deserve a committed relationship, and it is within your control to have the one you want. First, though, you need to determine what you want in a partner, plot your course, and get out there and create velocity in your pursuit of a loving connection.In this book you’ll learn to: Present the real you in the most flattering light. You have to stop being your own best kept secret. Peek behind the male curtain. Dr. Phil tells you things about men that they don’t necessarily want you to know. How good is your Guy-Q? Master the right moves. Don’t fade into the wallpaper; get noticed and get involved. If you are already coupled up then learn how to grow and nurture what you have built. Bag ‘em, tag ‘em and take ‘em home. Learn how to negotiate the relationship you desire and then close the deal. Get out of your relationship rut. The daily grind, money problems, work, etc., can take their toll on your relationship. Dr. Phil shows you how to assess the state of your union and take your relationship to a deeper level. There are no exceptions: There is somebody for everybody, and everybody deserves a relationship filled with love and excitement. Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix the One You Got offers you the plan to find not just any relationship but the committed, loving, joy-filled relationship you’ve been waiting for. Contact Dr. Phil at www.drphil.com